However, a spanking should be given only in response to willful defiance to a clear, appropriate parental directive that the child understands and is capable of following. Discussion in ' homeschooling in the news ' started by ochumgache, apr 2, 2010. After a spanking, we always hug them and tell them that we love them and that we don't want to spank them, but we have to discipline them
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We rarely need to spank our son any longer, he usually stays in line
Our daughter is a little more 'stong willed' and spankings aren't quite as effective as they were before.
Once the spanking is over, the child is restored to good standing The sin is forgiven and forgotten (this is the part that i think was freeing for our son I was racking my brain trying to come up with consequences sometimes, and he never knew what was coming
Also the consequences i came up with last long after the intial offence. For me, spanking should only be part of your game plan To leave it at just a spanking is dropping the ball on an opportunity to train the child However, to merely use problem solving skills, like love and logic is also only half of what a child needs to learn that defiance is not tolerated.
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